I was asked a question today-

"Deep down in your heart, you know that I would never leave you...or else you wouldn't let me hold you...kiss you...do these things to you...right?"

Wrong.

I know there is just as much chance as you leaving me, and honest-to-goodness, I am totally prepared to fully let you go if that's what is going to happen. But I love you. You said you felt like you were in a stale relationship. That you were so used to the love I give that you felt nothing at all. If I can do anything at all to help you feel that love again, I'm happy to help. I want to make you feel loved, even if you're going to leave at the end. I can deal with the consequences.

Maybe that's making you look like the selfish one. Like you're taking advantage. I'm just going to go ahead and say read the paragraph above, but that's something I can't help you with =\

You have asked me my opinion so many times, and I repeat- do what makes you happiest. Make the choice you won't regret. You know how much you love her. Don't let "just because you have a girlfriend" stop you. Don't let me hurting stop you. Because I won't hurt. So don't worry =)